Something I Would Say To Someone Whose Going Through A Break Up

Make friends with your heartache. It’s ok to be sad. It’s takes courage to be sad. But choose not to suffer. Just remember the friends who care for you. You are special and there are a lot that will appreciate who you are. God gave you a gift and no one can take it away from you. When time is right try to forgive your ex and yourself. Or else you’ll be hurting yourself if your emotions is taking over. Forgive your ex but not physically in person. Imagine a cord between you and your ex. One will be giving the energy and the other will be blocking it from going through. Once you felt the picture say the this words three times. “I forgive you, I forgive me, and I forgive us.” After that cut out the cord. If you do it right then you’ll experience the joy and happiness that is ahead of you. It takes time to let go but believe me time does heal. Pray for strength and support to get through the day. Overcome your fear of being alone. You don’t need that person to make you happy. Take good care of yourself. Make yourself happy before you can invite another person into your life. Appreciate what life has to offer so live life! When all this over you’ll look back and say wow I finally made it. That’s all I have to say.

- Jeremy Buenafe
“The more you have loved and have allowed yourself to suffer because of your love, the more you will be able to let your heart grow wider and deeper. When your love is truly giving and receiving, those whom you love will not leave your heart even when they depart from you. The pain of rejection, absence, and death can become fruitful. Yes, as you love deeply the ground of your heart will be broken more and more, but you will rejoice in the abundance of the fruit it will bear.” - Henri Nouwen
“Be thankful, for once in your life, you have been hurt for loving. You are human, and you had the courage to open your self to love and be hurt and some how learned and become more sturdy. At least, you can be better next time you learn to love again.”

 

Living Each Day and Making It Beautiful.

marionangeline:

Don’t cry about the past because it’s gone. Move on. And stop stressing about the future; it hasn’t arrived.

Take it one day at a time and enjoy the beautiful struggle with beautiful people…. It’ll all be worth it in the end..

As part of the healing process, start looking at the person not as you want them to be, but as they truly are.
Love Within a Storm

We mad love within a storm 
in the midst of passion and chaos 
somewhere, somehow our true bond 
of friendship was lost

In the eye of the storm 
The rain always falls harder 
Those who prevail this trauma 
will learn 2 bring their love farther

But now the storm has passed 
and the seas of our friendship R calm 
But as long as I live I will remember

the love within the storm

- Tupac

 

“Follow Your Heart, But Take Your Brain With You.” - Tupac

Using your logic as a tool for the healing process. If any, don’t let your emotion surpass your logic.